There is no pain quite as devastatingly horrendous as that of heartbreak. You will insist on being treated the way you deserve to be treated.That pain is only exponentially magnified if that heartbreak was the result of being cheated on. To have someone you have given your heart to be unfaithful is like having your beating heart ripped from your chest with a pair of loose pliers. After all of the trials, the love you will find later down the road will only be that much deeper, resilient and stable.Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful.
It's often said that men cheat for sex, while women cheat for love, the theory being that men can more easily compartmentalize sex and emotion, while women typically need to experience an emotional connection to a person before feeling sexual desire.
Without those pesky emotions to stand in the way of a potential mistake, a guy is much more likely to get himself into trouble (especially if alcohol is involved and inhibitions are down) or to get involved with someone for whom he has no feelings.
It’s often more a matter of the heart than of the genitals.
Sure, some women cheat for the sex, but many also cheat for another chance at love, or to confirm to themselves that their primary relationship is really over.
Our patience for bullshit has been reduced from slim to none.
We have learned to be on our own and to crawl out of the hole that our exes left us in, and we're not about to go into another one. Call me controlling, but I don't want my man around multiple women who comment and like every single one of his pictures. Nothing will make you self-reflect and analyze quite like deception. When you've been cheated on, you will tolerate very little BS from a future partner. As absolutely horrible as it was at the time, being cheated on was actually the best thing that could have ever happened to you.A gradual blurring of the lines between friendship and deeper intimacy draws even happily partnered people into relationships they never saw coming.So what are some of the signs that a woman could be cheating or thinking about it?We so badly want to say it back, but we stumble because the last time we said it and fell, no one caught us. We have dated men who have tried to hide the fact that they were in a relationship so they can creep, and we need you to be proud to be with us in public.